Maybe this won't be considered racial.....

I just have to vent and state a few thoughts about women of different races ( I am sure the same applies to men, but I am stating this from a mans point of view). As with any statement, the statements I make from this point forward are not all encompassing & no statement applies to everyone. So please do not take my comments personally. I work in a field that has a wide array of different cultures, Caucasian, Haitian, Puetro-Rican, Cuban, Black, Mexican and probably several other races I have failed to mention.
Every race/Culture has their own quirks/ beliefs / teachings / traditions / habits or whatever you want to call them. I for one am sick of the direction that "most" women of the Caucasian race are heading. The "modern white woman" has no intent on giving anything of herself to please her spouse, they have became self centered, materialistic, spoiled bitches. Little do they know how rewarding giving of their selves to their spouse can be. I doubt that they care as long as they get the material things they want.
Working closely with Haitian, Mexican, Cuban, Black & Puetro-Rican women I can see a huge difference in their attitudes, needs and beliefs. I cannot explain it and maybe it is just the difference in culture, but any of the women that I have mentioned in this paragraph are more caring and giving that most of the Caucasian women I have ever met. These women seem to derive pleasure from sharing of themselves with their significant other & their families. They are respectful, appreciative and have great pride in their accomplishments. They are not "needy" "greedy" or demanding. Their demeanor makes you want to please them.
Maybe I am just biased due top my own personal experiences. Maybe I am still somewhat stinging from an argument I had earlier with my wife or maybe my eyes have been opened. I don't know the answer, but as I said in my first line I wanted to vent. I welcome any opinions and hopefully I have not offended anyone with my statements.
Take care,
When you come to realize you are riding a dead horse the best strategy is to dismount!!!

Vacation

HAPPY VACATION !!!!

I wanted to wish you a Happy Vacation and let you know that you will be missed. I would still like to tell you goodbye personally tomorrow, but I wanted to write down a few of my thoughts that I am sure I could not remember to say them all tomorrow.

I hope that you and your daughter have a wonderful time with your Mom and that your Mom is in good health and well. I know she will be happy to see you both and will be very proud of you and she will see how great of a job you have done raising your daughter.

I want you to know that I understand that you have moved on with your life & I cannot blame you for that. You have to do what you feel is best for you. My only hope is that you are happy and that you are treated with the respect & love that you deserve. You are a wonderful person and have so much to offer.

I have tried to step away and leave you alone and not express my feelings anymore. With you going away for so long, I did want to let you know that I will be praying your trip is a Safe one and that you have a Great time. Please know that I will always be wishing good things for you no matter how far away you are or what happens in either of our lives. Knowing you has enlightened my life and inspired me to try and be a better person. My only regret is that I wasn’t able to be the person that could provide you with the things you need to be happy.

PLEASE be safe and take care of yourself and your daughter. Wish your Mom the very best & if you want let her know that someone (me) thinks she done a fabulous job raising her wonderful daughter!